Sunday, April 28, 2013

Just Be Friendly


I signed up and showed up for another class in knitting.  I don’t think I have ever been as stunned as this woman who taught the class.

First of all, the yarn shop is selling very “high” end yarns that have been imported from all over the world and, to me, seemed very expensive.  All fine and good if you are creating something that you want to keep and treasure.  But I just wanted to practice on some plain, domestic wool.  Not to be had in this store.

We gathered in a room of about 12 women and suddenly, this woman is telling us what to do.  I had not ever seen her before so had no idea that she was the “owner” of the shop.  She didn’t introduce herself, nor did she introduce any of us to each other, and just assumed that we all knew each other.  She had one of her employees assisting us and told her to “teach” our table and she would take the other.  Then she constantly came over to “take over” and tell us what to do.  I found her very rude and overpowering. 

I left the class wondering if I ever wanted to shop with her ever again. 

When I signed up for the class, I specifically asked what supplies I needed to bring.  I did.  All of it wrong for the class.  Needed circular needles instead of the straight ones I had, and needed to bring a cotton yarn/thread to use as a guide thread.  Fortunately, I had a very nice young lady sitting next to me and she supplied me with what I needed in order to be in the class.

I kept wondering what it was about not giving the correct instructions on what to have or bring.  I, like most knitters, have duplicate and triplicate needles of all sizes from steel, to bamboo, to plastic.  I didn’t need to “buy” any more.

I realized that as I was driving home that here was someone who had built up a business but had no “marketing” skills at all.  But then I realized that it doesn’t take any marketing skills to be friendly and make someone feel at home.  This was a great lesson for me and reminded me that I need to smile more at all people.  I just need to be friendly.


No comments:

Post a Comment